Personal Definitions by Nature always lack completion, always lack perfection.
But when we really and truly like Something, we also like to let the world know that we are a belonging part of it, sometimes this something actually defines who we are because we advertise and present ourselves via this Something, whatever it may be.
For instance, many people, they just love to have their Colleges, their Universities smeared all over their online profiles whether professional or not, because they think that defines them, you know, that carefully chosen “label” which they think “to be of special value & prestige”.
Other people plaster their career path, their job/work titles all over and next to their names, in their online profiles, etc, because they want, oh yes, they wish to be defined by that alone.
To make a long story short, we all have Something which we like to be defined along side of, by and with.
I love my Pagan Allegiance, I love being Pagan and therefore I feel proud and happy to make sure my profile definitions, that they do carry their weight of the personal value & dignified personal satisfaction that I feel, see and love in myself, in my time, in my life!
I love being Pagan, I like being Wiccan, I adore being a Quimbandeira and I am quite fond of being a 100% Pagan Occultist!
I also love being Polytheist, being Animism-oriented.
And folks, I am not anti-Anything except I am anti-willful-Ignorance and anti-wilful-Intellectual-Dishonesty!
Having said that, I am absolutely 100% Non-Abrahamic ( No Abrahamic Mythologies a.k.a. Religions in my life at all!)
Yes, 100% No Spiritual-Dualism in my life and I like that very much!
I love being a 100% Pagan Pansexual Non-Binary MTF permanent Non-Op Trans a.k.a. Transgender Hps / Pretresse / Ialorixa / Yalorixa / Olorisha — Yaya of the Pagan paths, of the ancient Pagan Supreme Being Goddess Creatress, of my dearest Ashtoreth, of ancient Pagan Goddesses and Gods, of my much loved Pagan Quimbanda Mayorals, Pombagiras and Exus.
I adore, I love being a part of the Pagan Occult, of Pagan Magick, of Pagan Shamanism, of both ancient Pagan Witchcraft, modern Pagan Wicca and my dear Pagan Quimbanda!
And of course yes, I want it all to be a part of the presentation of I, Me, Myself and always!
The same it applies to my being a GLBTQ+ or LGBTQ+ oriented, because I love it and I am very proud of being a belonging part of it.
I love being Non-Binary Non-Op MTF Transgender, I love being Pansexual and naturally, I want it all to be a part of the presentation of I, Me, Myself and always!
Is all of this my final personal Definition of I Me Myself?
We all are much, much more than what our words, much more than our images and our “belief & language” may all attempt to box ourselves in, or to limit ourselves to, and to define us by!
Yes, we all are much more, folks!
But in the vast body of possibilities of the dear “What, Who and How” which we really are, we all manage to present ourselves with the Shorter Version of ourselves, usually something dear and which we consider good and likable!
Of course, many people get easily preoccupied and concerned about how other people will react and will feel about their personal presentations of themselves.
So they pad their presentation and bloody well-padded indeed, I mean, they fill it up, or cover their personal presentation of themselves with Soft Content and easy, mild material in order to protect the real Stuff & Content about Themselves which They Do Not Like and their perceived-as-unpleasant Contents.
In other words, they make their personal presentation of themselves more comfortable, more tailored/edited to be well-received, well accepted by others, by people in general.
They give it a special well-padded particular shape, whether for business / work application, or for home and personal usage.
We all have parts of our lives which we do not care to share, because they were “Bad Times” and not “Good Times”!
And I do not know anybody who likes “bad times” and who is proud of “bad times”!
Other people just to be a bloody “pain in the ass”, they sit on their invented dividing fences and pedestals, and from there, then they choose to “interpret”, to construe, to understand “Any Information” which it is intentionally omitted, or simply forgotten, or excluded for any reason, or left-out of another person’s personal presentation and definition, as if this excluded information were either bad or shameful things / events / people.
Of course, in fact, in reality, most people do not waste their time in “Being ashamed” of/about “things, event and people” that they can’t help Them for being What, Who and How they really were, or still are!
We cannot be held accountable for, and we are not responsible for Other People and their past bad decisions and paths or their present foolish choices!
We are not to blame for Other people and for What, Who and How they chose To Be in the past, or still are in the present.
And in fact, nobody likes to include in their personal presentation of themselves, in their personal definition, the unpleasant collection of “unpleasant things, people and events” from the past or present, which were or are “unpleasant, unhappy, painful, difficult and bad parts, ugly portions of their experience, of their life and times.
Nobody in their right mind, nobody who is sane, absolutely nobody does like to include the “unpleasant, unhappy and undesirable” things, people and events, there for all to see inside of their personal public presentation and definition of themselves!
Because it is expected, it is logical, it is reasonable, it is intelligent, it is wise!
It is what it is good for home, for family, for friends and most of the time also good for work / business!
What it is not, it is not Shame, it is not Neglect, it is not being Rude, it is not being ill-Mannered at all!
And it is not about “Being Better Than” the others, it is not about “Being Superior to the others!
Of course, in general the bad tongues, the gossip ranks and files, ah they will focus on whatever may sound bad, shameful and undesirable and then as expected, they will try to make it the reason, the cause for the exclusion, as if anybody actually cared at all.
People may find it amusing!
People like to laugh at Other People’s Foibles. And that it is because, secretly, it personally reminds them of their own.
That is it, folks!
No final definitions here neither, actually never!
Because I am also Made Of Changes and much alike as Everything, Everybody, all Creation, all Existence, All life, We All are made of Changes!
We all bow down, we all surrender to eternal and infinite Evolution.
As to I Me Myself?
In terms of the practicality and objectivity of this ever-passing “Now and Here” and my Expression of Myself in this time and place, I will always filter my Personal Definition with Something I adore, love and that I feel it is a natural, harmonious and belonging part, portion of I, Me, Myself!
The Things I pursue in life, the Things that I present I Me Myself by and with, they all are Things that really and truly “belong” to me, they are really a much appreciated part, portion of Me I Myself, and I do not mind My Definition to be associated with them.
As a matter of fact, I actually wish, and I do want my own Definition of Myself to be always associated with Them.
I want them to shine through me and equally I want myself shining through them!
How about those people who do not understand all of that or people who do not “want” to understand all of that?
They can go “FUCK Themselves”! They can go bugger up elsewhere, because I certainly do not need, I do not want “those people” in my life, in my time!
To each person, their own kind, their own choices and all rewards thereof!
To me, mine only!
I stand by that 100% and also quite pleased about it and peacefully!
In the end, we all employ LABELS, because we live in a world of “Belief and Language”, in fact, many of them!
For ourselves, we all stand by that what we like, know, trust and believe!
And yes, it is logical to expect that we will also attempt to join all of that, to append and to add all of that to our personal presentation of ourselves, to our personal definitions of ourselves.
The Exception is:
When we do not like another person’s personal discoveries about themselves,
Another person’s personal allegiances & alliances,
Another person’s personal gifts, advantages and good fortunes,
Another person’s personal presentation and definition of themselves, etc.
Because, that “it is When”, we attempt and we really try very hard and very much to find ways to discredit, to lower, to downplay, to put down the level of importance and of value of
that other person and that of that person’s elements of presentation and
And for no good reasons at all, except for wilful ignorance, or for wilful intellectual dishonesty, and for the ordinary, foolish penchant to sow disruption & to pry into others’ business with unwelcome intrusion, or because of jealousy & envy, or simply for that primitive and ghastly desire for war, for battle, that misplaced need for drama, for theatre, for persecution! As you may already know, We, folks, our Species can be “Brutal”, despite all modern pleasantries, niceties and our so-called advanced progress.
That type of action catches many people by surprise and many people are not prepared for it and they do not know how to deal with it.
I Me Myself, I have seen this type of human rubbish and this sort of bullshit, and many times before, in the films, in actual life, in the real world.
And I consider Myself an expert on sensing this type of nonsense, of disrespect and of personal abuse!
What do I do?
I identify the source, I state my position and I do make sure the other party becomes informed that whatever said, written, that in fact none of that will ever change anything to me or in my personal or public life and times.
And it will never ever change that what I like, love and define myself by, with and anything which I very much & Au-natural belong to, and it also mutually belongs to me!
Then, well, life goes on as it always does.
How about the rest?
How about other people who may disagree or dislike?
To be quite honest, I really and truly don’t care!
Be healthy and prosper in your own pasture! And bugger off mine!
We all move on, folks!
SKY a.k.a. Padilla of Ashtoreth a.k.a. JD Aeon
C’est encore moi!
Je crois que c’est vrai, nous ne pouvons pas perdre notre destin, si individuel ou collectif!
Cependant ce peut être, quoi qu’il puisse se passer, ce n’est pas au sujet de fins ni au sujet de commencements, c’est au sujet de nos voyages de berceau à tombe. Nous devons trouver un chemin, être significatif, vrai et heureux aussi!
Oh oui! Ce qui t’est destiné trouvera le moyen de t’attendre!
Il te trouvera, tôt ou tard!