The first lesson about ATTRACTION is, there are two distinct types, the remote kind and the up-front & in-person type!
Most people may be attracted to a person via a film, a picture, an image of that person and all of that from a distance, people attracted to people that they never ever met.
Most of those, if the parties would actually meet each other up front and in person, the so-called initial Attraction may not be there at all.
Because human beings have the unhealthy habit of being Attracted to Images rather than to the real and actual Human-Beings behind the images.
And you know, Photoshop just cannot make over Anybody in real time, in real life, in the real world, up front and close.
Voice, choice of words, mannerisms, everything is a part of it, folks and that what you do not see, counts very hard, whether to confirm or whether to undo the perceived and felt initial Attraction.
UPFRONT & CLOSE…
Upfront and close can also be brutal, because no place to hide and no time for rehearsals and you’re really on your own!
Most people may be attracted to other people instantly sometimes, as they first meet and lo and behold, somebody has “the hots for you”, or you for them.
It sounds beautiful and ideal, doesn’t it?
But wait a minute, there is a whole lot more to it, folks!
In this type of Attraction, you see, you feel, it is happening in front of your face and in person.
And you do know what and how you feel… But do you?
Well, if/when successful communications do follow this type of Attraction, many people get turned off and lose that initial attraction at their very first meeting with communications between the two parties.
And that it is because the other person may well look hot and jolly good indeed, but folks, sometimes their Belief and Language do not match yours, or that of the other person.
Sometimes their Values and their Ways of Conduct are too different and Out of Harmony to you or that of the other person.
Sometimes, they are just way Out of “Socio-Religio-Politico” Balance with you, or with that of the other person.
So that Attraction also fails.
Oh yes, it crashes and burns!
WHAT IS THE ANSWER TO THE BEST ATTRACTION?
In my opinion, it is good to know that Image, first Impressions count very hard but there are other Mighty Factors & Variables which require us all to get to know the other person, the other Human-Being well first, and before we make any final decision, before we fully embrace any so-called Attraction.
Instant attractions, instant love, instant fun… They sound wonderful but how wonderful are they really?
The Instant Stuff of Life, well, They all are a lot like Instant Coffee, folks!
Yes, they can fulfil a quick natural fancy & need but they are not the full answer, they never were!
Because, fact is, instant coffee will never ever be able to offer the Value, the real Flavour, the true Taste, the Meaning and the Quality of true, real freshly brewed coffee.
Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon